Baby boomers should be planning for their own retirement but when providing financial

To avoid the “jarring gong”, Seniorliving offers the following recommendations to baby boomers:
· Children attending college should take out student loans if necessary and elderly parents should use their own assets to finance their care for as long as possible.
· Project what kind of income will be needed for retirement. There are plenty of financial planners available to assist in this task.
· Look into the viability of long-term care insurance for their aging parents and for themselves. Long-term care insurance could help offset “asset-draining” costs if nursing care is necessary.
· Talk with their parents as early as possible about their assets, how they want to live as they age, what kind of health care and lifesaving measures they do or don't want, and who should make legal and medical decisions for them if they are no longer able to handle their own affairs. This may be a difficult and uncomfortable conversation but Laura T. Coffrey of msnbc recommends the following:
1. Broach the subject of money by sharing a money related story of their own or one of their friend’s parents.
2. Ask the parent for permission and assistance to examine the parent’s checkbook, bank statements, credit card statements, etc. to look for “red flags” such as duplicate payments, lots of payments to home-shopping networks, large charitable donations, unnecessary payments to a “handy man”, etc.
3. If there is a problem, investigate into government programs for older Americans on low or fixed incomes at BenefitsCheckup.org.
4. If the parent lives in a large home, recommend they “downsize” and realize cash from the sale of the home. Or, if the parent is 62 or older, they could get a reverse mortgage. Such loans allow homeowners to convert home equity into cash without having to move or assume extra debt. To learn more, visit http://www.aarp.org/revmort.
5. Arrange for a durable power of attorney, which would allow a parent to appoint a trustworthy person to help them manage their finances; a durable power of attorney for health care (also known as a health-care proxy); a living will, and a will. The financial planner previously recommended can direct the parent to an attorney who specializes in such matters.
By addressing these issues while there is still time to plan ahead, baby boomers can avoid a lot of the “sandwiched generation” problems.